Monday, March 5, 2007

What next?


Today was another fun-filled day. Molly was goofing around with the boys last night and fell over the back of the couch. She cried a little bit and complained about her hand, but it didn't seem too serious at the time. However, she woke up crying about 79 times (at least it felt like 79, but maybe it was actually only 59 times) last night and I knew something was definitely wrong. She was still favoring her hand this morning, so we headed for an x-ray and a visit to the pediatrician (and thank goodness Miles wasn't with us so he could kill the nurse Kathy). Sure enough, Molly has a fracture on her radius close to the wrist. After a visit to the orthopedist, she's now sporting a lovely purple cast. I wish I could say it has slowed her down a little bit, but about an hour after getting her cast on, I caught her pushing her Big Wheel up our steep driveway for a one-handed thrill ride.


I wish I could say Dave is doing much better, but it seems like slow progress or maybe no progress at all. Ok, it actually feels like another giant step backwards. I don't even know where to begin. They drained the fluid that had built up and was causing so much pain. They'll continue to have that drain hooked up to suction to drain anything that is still leaking in that area. He has also developed mild pneumonia and there were signs of infection in the fluid they are draining, so he's been on IV antibiotics since Friday night. It appears the fluid was leaking from his thoracic duct, so I'm told it should take care of itself once they dry the area out. However, drying the area out means no more eating or drinking for Dave either by mouth or by tube feedings (not that I think tube feeding qualifies as either eating or drinking). They put a PICC line back in (he had one during his chemo) to keep him nutrified and hydrated.


I had promised Molly we could go visit Daddy in the hospital (hopala as she calls it) after we finished up with her appointments, so we headed over to Swedish. We were stopped cold at the door of his room. Now he also has a staph infection at the site of one of his JP drains, so they have him in isolation. They've got him on some new IV antibiotics as the staph bacteria is apparently resistant to the other antibiotics they were using. I can go see him in the morning, but I'll have to don full combat gear - gown, mask, gloves, etc - before I can go in his room. The nurse said they'll probably have him in isolation through the entire 10-day course of antibiotics. Nice.


He's still on the heavy-duty pain meds so he's not always totally lucid. I think it's the morphine that has him really wiggy. He called tonight and said he was confused about the scale of things, like they've got some extra large washcloths and chairs in his room. I didn't realize he was higher than a kite until he said something about how his teeth had been really huge, but now they got really small and it was ok. All I could think about was that Jefferson Airplane song, White Rabbit, "One pill makes you larger and one pill makes you small..." And, the funny thing is that the boys were watching Alice in Wonderland yesterday and when I walked in the room and saw the "hookah smoking caterpillar" I realized I've read the book, but had never seen the movie. I love the song White Rabbit, but Dave really hates it.


Well, that's about it. Tomorrow is another day and hopefully it can't be any worse than today...




9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh my God, Shannon, when it rains it pours doesn't it! Molly doesn't look like she's fazed by the cast and the broken arm at all! I hope you can get some sleep tonight.

We continue to pray for Dave's recovery. I take comfort in Paul's assurance that this is a problem with the recovery - not the cancer, and am confident that Dave will fight through this setback.

Shannon, I can't tell you how much I admire your strength, courage and resourcefulness as you meet each of these new challenges.

I am thinking of you. God bless and keep you all.

Love, Lynn & Kent Nixon

Tara Clark said...

Shannon--You are being put through the wringer!! And still you have the ability to put a few smiles on my face w/ your writing.
Molly looks fabulous in purple! Cooper has been talking about Molly all week and is excited to see her tomorrow.
You all continue to be in our thoughts and hopefully the antibiotics kick the heck out of Dave's infections and the worst can be behind you!
Hopefully you are finding a few minutes to rest yourself!

r said...

Shannon and David, so many people are behind you in thought and spirit; there's strength in numbers.

You are both strong people, and David's going to fight this off, big teeth and all.

The 10-day isolation is going to be tough, but I know you can both make it through.

Love is headed your way.

Anonymous said...

Shannon:

Tell Dave that I am thinking about him. In fact, I think about him every time I go into our "Dave McGeoy" wing. (He'll explain) Also, tell him that I am pulling for him--one fraternity brother for another.

JIM RICE (Kevin's Dad)

reba.bliss said...

Shannon-It appears that Molly has the McGeoy fighting spirit like her parents! I am so glad that you were with the surgeon when this all happened. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as you navigate all of this. And please, let me know if there is anything I can do to help-

Reba Blissell

Anonymous said...

Oh my God, Shannon - I didn't realize it was a thoracic duct leak (I was thinking it was lower down, but of course with his surgery that makes sense...) That explains the high volume, and respiratory infection - this can sometimes take a while to heal, even with TPN, and occasionally if the drainage doesn't settle down after several days they may consider taking him back to the OR to fix it... I'm going to hope that won't be necessary, but but be prepared for this to take a little while longer to heal... I'm so sorry something like this happened - Thank God you had an appt with the surgeon the same day - he could have gotten much sicker (if you can believe it...)

Also very sorry to hear about Molly - the EXACT same thing happened to our friends little girl just a few weeks ago (same age and everything). Of course, she's just fine now... kids bounce back so fast! Jack and Claire will be proud to sign her cast if they get a chance!

Please let me know if there is ANY WAY I can help with anything - I'm on spring break as of tomorrow, so am at your disposal!

love to you both - jormain

Anonymous said...

OH - and that's funny about the pain meds... I once heard a patient say, "you know, I like to think that I have two brains... one is very small, and the other is really, really, really tiny..." I'd go for the big teeth over that... :) - jc

Anonymous said...

Shannon Dave
Ciao
I should have read the blog before going to Swedish to be turned away. It is hard walking out the door disappointed, worried. Then I get home to the computer and there you are , updated, I am so thankful as a friend , you share it all.
I am sending you all good thoughts and hugs.
Bergamin

Anonymous said...

Still here, still reading... just checking in. Shannon, you are a strong woman and an excellent writer.

Dave, Molly's latest endeavor just demonstrates that kids learn by example. Hospital, schmospital! Get out of there so the doctors can go play golf!